Bookstore is always a good place to meet friends and feminist book store is the perfect place to meet transgender lesbians or just lesbians. If you see someone sure, you will have a lot to talk about. If you are polite and not too shy, you can talk with many beautiful strangers when you are browsing a book. It is totally acceptable and spontaneous. At most time, when you are talking, it can be surprising to find you love the same writer and share the same perspective on certain subject. This is the best time to build connection.
If you dress too feminine, then you have fetish over female. Who doesn’t want a pretty dress and cute shoes with a perfect lipstick? However, just as normal and regular as any other cisgender women, transgender women are likely to be considered as female fetish.
If you dress too masculine, then you are not a real woman. Sometimes, you just want to wear a simple shirt with jeans without wearing any makeup. Then you are a freak but not a woman, because you don’t look like one. Here is the new dating app.
You like salt more than other cisgender women. If you are eating with other cisgender women, you will find their dishes are tasteless, while if your cisgender friend have a taste in your dish, “it’s really salty”. That’s what they will say.
Let’s face it, you are not very good at makeup. First, transgender women do not have girly childhood. Even if they occasionally tried the dresses and eye black, it’s far from enough. They didn’t have much practice and we all know it takes a lot of practice to apply mascara and eyeliner brush.
Be ready for the debate if you want to come out in public. Being a lesbian already takes a lot of explanation, let alone for transgender lesbians. You need to explain two concepts at the same time. It’s really exhausting. Be ready for it.
Sometimes, you are going to get compliments like “you are so brave” or “you are so tall” and something like that. If you are watching a horror movie with your girlfriends, you will find they are really timid and you are going to be the one that gives them a sense of security. That might not be romantic at all, but it will happen. They are not shemales.